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You are here because you would like something to be different. Right?

And I get that, I really do, because I have been where you are. I've felt the pain, avoided it, used on it, and sat with it to heal from it.

Maybe you are feeling stuck, and fed up of feeling fed up. Overwhelmed, anxious, and depressed. Or just caught up in the cycle of life repeating the same old patterns of behaviour thinking how have I ended up here? AGAIN! NO!!

Whatever it is, be it addiction, relationships, parenting- being a dad, school or work. I want you to know this鈥� CHANGE IS POSSIBLE!

You are not defined by your struggles, and you do not have to face them alone. I am here, I hear you, and it would be my pleasure to help you find a way through.

Know this too, addiction is not a sign of weakness, and you are not 鈥渁n addict.鈥�

You are a human being who has found a way to cope, and the fact that you are reading this highlights the hope you have, your courage, and the readiness for something better.

As Epictetus once wisely asked: 鈥淗ow long are you going to wait before you demand the best of yourself?鈥�

True transformation is not about what you 'do,' it鈥檚 about 'who you are being,' and when we reconnect with our authentic self, we rise above what we must, accept what we can, and move forward with grace.

So see me more as a fellow traveller, as I have been down this road myself, where together, we will create a space for some truly open, honest, and compassionate conversations to allow our pain to evolve into wisdom and our fear into faith.

We will celebrate what鈥檚 already working, and where you are winning while appreciating you have everything you need inside you to live a life full of love, joy, gratitude, creativity, purpose, and meaning.

Remember, this is not about 鈥榝ixing鈥� you, as you are not broken, lost or damaged. It鈥檚 about honouring who you already are. Your wholeness. Your completeness. Who you were born to be.

So that said, let me tell you a little bit about me... I鈥檓 Tom. A Psychotherapist and Behaviour Change Expert. 

I specialise in Addiction and Relationships where for over 20 years now, I have supported some of the most amazing and beautiful people, as I believe that鈥檚 what we all are, to see what鈥檚 true about our experience of life. Hence why I shared what I did above.

I have a wealth of experience spanning diverse settings such as esteemed rehabilitation centres like the Priory, the NHS, in schools/SEND, and within the corporate sector. I bring a unique blend of expertise to the table to help people come home to that place within where they can sustainably feel safer, secure, and more settled and stable than ever before.

Holding a Masters in Addiction Psychology and Counselling, a Post Graduate Certificate of Education and several other advanced qualifications in relationships and trauma, I am also a Registered Member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (网爆门) and an Accredited, and Advanced Practitioner with the Addiction Professionals where given my own research and publications, I am considered to be at the forefront of pioneering transformative therapeutic practices.

I am also extremely passionate about child welfare and firmly believe that if we do not listen to our children, while attending to ourselves, then we are far more likely to have adults who have been unheard, and wounded as a result. This, the reason why I strive to implement, explore and develop early intervention strategies and techniques so there can be an appreciation of the fact that all behaviour is a form of communication.

From the outset, I ground people in the understanding that we all have that peace, joy, love, confidence and wisdom within; we just create the illusion that we do not and consequently, end up losing ourselves looking for it outside of us in whatever person, place, or thing we think will make us feel better. Sound familiar?

Through such transformative conversations, we will know what we need to attend to and it is imperative that the time is taken to grasp these aspects of life fully.

As we consciously dive deeper into a more insightful dialogue, you will undoubtedly start to notice the fundamental spark of life that surrounds us all and the genius within.

In concluding work with me, clients often describe feeling heard, lighter, and knowing what needs to happen. And as one so eloquently shared: 鈥淚 have never felt clearer and am truly excited for the future.鈥�

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile, and considering working with me. I look forward to talking more.

Best,

Tom x