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I offer both In person and sessions by video link.  I offer morning, afternoon and evening sessions. Also on Saturday mornings. 

Couples £120 / 70 minutes

Individuals £100 / 60 minutes.

Welcome I am Paul, and inspired by my therapy have for over a decade been helping couples struggling to make their relationship work and individuals who struggle to connect with others, or find it hard to maintain, emotional wellbeing, stability and self-confidence or control in close relationships - And I am passionate about the importance of therapy that delivers lasting change and not surface solutions. This this is my specialty. 

Many I help arrive feeling feeling angry, hurt, lonely, with the give and take gone along with faded passion and tired of the constant arguments or silences - and individuals fearful, anxious and feeling abandoned. Yet even then I see how couples can learn to heal and become successful partners, transforming their relationship into a warm, loving and supportive one. and individuals become stable, confident and self-assured.

I also know how difficult it can be sharing what is deeply personal and private. When I needed help asking was huge, I was scared, vulnerable and unsure about having therapy or where to start. That is why for me I care not only that your therapy is successful but how we go about it. 

 With years of helping in specialist areas such as trauma, neglect, anxiety, personality development and poor self image and attachment issues I'm good at understanding deeper hidden issues in relationships when they exist, and you will receive all the sensitive support and guidance you need. Real steps, and changes that show up in yourself or your relationship week by week. And  it matters to me equally how we go about therapy.  We do this with kindness, dignity and respect, have a normal relationship and I even can see the funny side of life.

It is my aim that you leave knowing how to maintain and build a compelling relationship, no matter what has gone before. It can all start with a  FREE 60 minute initial meeting to find out if therapy is right for you. 

I work from Caterham . Caterham is 300m from The High Street and station and 2m from Jct 6 M25. My clients are of all ages and couples even in the late 60s arrive and are helped. 

FREE INITIAL MEETING: An initial session is an informal meeting and opportunity for you to tell me about what is troubling you and what changes you are hoping to make - Also for me to explain how I work and can help and after which in your own time you can decide if having counselling is right for you. Free of charge and typically 60 mins.