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At the time of writing, I think we are in Week 13 of the Lockdown. Collectively we all got catapulted into the online world and have seen our lives dramatically altered.

Having survived the initial shock and loss, my clients and I have settled into a routine, network connections have stabilised and the familiar comments of 鈥淐an you hear me?,鈥� I can hear you but can鈥檛 see you鈥�, and 鈥� you鈥檝e frozen, oh it鈥檚 OK you鈥檙e back鈥� have reduced. I鈥檓 sure, at a later date, when we look back these conversations will be funny. But, in that moment when you鈥檙e trying to listen to a client鈥檚 story, it鈥檚 frustrating.

What鈥檚 emerged and got me thinking, is the role of animals in these sessions. Now that clients can no longer attend sessions in person when we meet virtually, I鈥檝e been given access to client鈥檚 houses, sheds and cars, and increasingly I鈥檝e noticed the roles animals play in our sessions.

I wonder if, like their human owners they鈥檝e had to adjust to lockdown. Perhaps the novelty of having their owners around a lot more and speaking into a 鈥榖ox on the table鈥� has generated a new curiosity? I wonder how it all looks to them when suddenly in the middle of a session a wet nose appears in the camera as they eagerly attempt to join in our session.

My cats are barred from my practice room when I鈥檓 working face to face, although I know some clients are desperate for them to be present. Their wish I suspect is that the cats will settle on their laps for a cuddle, but the risk unfortunately is that they might get ignored altogether as cats, unlike dogs, can be aloof, moody individuals and won鈥檛 perform to command. Maybe I need to consider getting a therapy dog?

During the lockdown I noticed how the presenter Matt Baker, on leaving the One Show, delivered his departing speech with his dog on his lap, providing a distraction possibly or more likely than not a form of comfort as he struggled with his emotions.

I鈥檝e also noticed how animals are responsive to distress. No surprise here as many of us that own pets will be aware of how they tune into their owners鈥� emotions. More often than not they will pick up a client鈥檚 distress and suddenly appear in the room to offer comfort.

As a therapist and a pet owner I鈥檝e found the little intrusions that pets have been making into our lock down therapy sessions and meetings interesting, and I recognise they may be of value in more ways than one.